AUTHOR: Marty, a.k.a. canape TITLE: Another battle in the war DATE: 4/01/2010 10:29:00 PM ----- BODY:
I hate cancer.

That's a really stupid thing to say. It implies that maybe someone out there doesn't hate it.

Momma's numbers are down and her scans show improvement. Not enough to get a break from chemo, but improvement nonetheless.

My friend Susan, however, did not have clean scans and is facing another battle.

The thing that makes me so angry is not the cancer itself. It's the freaking inconvenience. Susan has things to do. Great things because she is a freaking genius. Great things because she is an awesome mom. Great things that the world will have to wait on because of cancer.

We're brushing off our Team Whymommy badges. We're remembering when the wall of support started. We're lifting prayers and positive energy.

Keep fighting, SuSu. It's worth it. You make the world a better place.

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----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Imstell DATE:Friday, April 2, 2010 at 12:17:00 AM EDT I think I need a new badge since I moved my blog... :-( ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Ilina DATE:Friday, April 2, 2010 at 8:59:00 PM EDT Want to join Team Dirt & Noise in the Race for the Cure? I'm adding Susan to our list, along with my friends Jenn and Jennifer who are mothers battling breast cancer too. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Becki DATE:Friday, April 2, 2010 at 10:34:00 PM EDT So sorry to hear Susan is fighting the fight again :( ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous winecat DATE:Tuesday, April 6, 2010 at 7:42:00 AM EDT Breast cancer sucks the big one. I've almost made it 4 years after being diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer. Fortunately mine was found very, very early (tumor less than 1/4 inch).

I'm almost, yes almost 4 years out - May 6. I'm not a mom but who cares in this ugly battle?

My best wishes to you. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous whymommy DATE:Tuesday, April 6, 2010 at 10:57:00 AM EDT Thanks. Just ... thanks. ----- -------- AUTHOR: Marty, a.k.a. canape TITLE: Had to change the title of this one DATE: 5/16/2008 02:05:00 PM ----- BODY:
This summer, we will head to the beach with Whymommy and her family. For a celebration. Not a goodbye. I cannot put into words how thankful I am for that.

Susan has always been my "see it from a different perspective" friend. The friend who makes me think outside of my box.

In high school, my box was very very tiny, so that wasn't a hard thing. One foot in either direction had me reeling outside of my box. She was very patient with my tiny little private school mind.

Over the years, we have talked, traveled, cried (but not much because we are oh so strong women who really need to get more comfortable with a tissue), laughed, and learned together. She lasted in the learning part far past I did. I bored easily with school, and she tackled it with a vengeance.

She was on the same trip to Mexico which generated the most embarrassing story of my entire life. And she still loves me. I don't know why.

She read my angst filled, totally rhyming poetry in high school. And she still loves me.

She listened to my angst filled, I'll never be Debbie Gibson or Amy Grant, songs in high school. Even sang the harmony. And she still loves me.

She stood up for me at my first wedding even when she knew it was a mistake. Even when her grandmother had just passed away. Even when the dress I made her wear was distinctively pink. And flowy.

She told me the truth about those first weeks of motherhood. She called to check on me, not just the baby. She coaxed me through the darkest days with wisdom and compassion. And she still loves me.

Blogging is funny sometimes. I sat down to write an entirely different post. A post about getting Bird prepared to go to the beach with little hats and swim trunks. And yet, when I let my fingers go, freely typing without thinking (which gets me into trouble more times than not), this is what appeared.

After almost a year of holding my breath and praying for a miracle, here we are planning to meet up at the beach. To celebrate.

It's clear to me that she is worth celebrating. It's clear that I'm lucky to have her as my friend.

It needs to be said that I am so thankful for her treatment and results.

So very very thankful.

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----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Candygirlflies DATE:Friday, May 16, 2008 at 5:32:00 PM EDT What a beautiful post, Canape. Just beautiful.

I'll be thinking about you at the beach next week, and look forward to all the happy details! What a wonderful way to celebrate--know that I'm with you in my heart!

You and WM have a very special friendship... I wish that everyone could be so lucky, to find that sort of "kindred spirit" in another person!

Lots of love to you all--

xoxo CGF ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Susie DATE:Friday, May 16, 2008 at 8:28:00 PM EDT And thank you for leading me to Susan's blog - which I love and read daily. Two years ago, my best friend battled, almost lost, and beat a terrible cancer diagnosis. I felt so helpless and far away - I totally identified with your side of her story. I am so glad you will be celebrating at the beach together!
Enjoy! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous whymommy DATE:Friday, May 16, 2008 at 8:58:00 PM EDT Hey, babe. Of course I still love you! And know what? There was more than one embarrassing story to come out of that Mexico trip. :-)

But hey, once you've had scorpions crawl on you, you're friends for life, right? ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Ally DATE:Friday, May 16, 2008 at 9:39:00 PM EDT I am thankful, too, for Canape's successful treatment, and for the chance to get to know her, and you. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous PunditMom DATE:Saturday, May 17, 2008 at 11:54:00 AM EDT That is so wonderful! Hopefully, no scorpions! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Tiffany DATE:Saturday, May 17, 2008 at 2:00:00 PM EDT What a wonderful post. I am thankful you get to celebrate without even knowing her! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Michelle Lynn DATE:Saturday, May 17, 2008 at 8:48:00 PM EDT Wonderful post, wonderful thing to celebrate. I hope you have a spectacular trip! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Bubblewench DATE:Monday, May 19, 2008 at 6:28:00 AM EDT Totally awesome post.. Yes, do celebrate! You both deserve it. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Jessica @ A Bushel and a Peck DATE:Monday, May 19, 2008 at 10:26:00 AM EDT That is a lovely tribute to a great friend...have a blast at the beach!!! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Jessica DATE:Monday, May 19, 2008 at 7:40:00 PM EDT you two are so lucky to have one another... Have a WONDERFUL time. :) ----- -------- AUTHOR: Marty, a.k.a. canape TITLE: Survivor DATE: 4/18/2008 10:37:00 PM ----- BODY:
In case you missed the news, my best friend kicked cancer's ass.

Please go congratulate her.

Woot!

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----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Andria and Co. DATE:Friday, April 18, 2008 at 11:48:00 PM EDT Hooray!!!!!!!!!!!!! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Stimey DATE:Saturday, April 19, 2008 at 2:05:00 PM EDT Double woot! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Candygirlflies DATE:Saturday, April 19, 2008 at 9:06:00 PM EDT I've been thinking about you, Canape, ever since I heard the news. You must be over the moon!

Congratulations to YOU, for standing by Susan, for being so strong and supportive during this difficult time. You are a true, True Friend.

I'm so proud to have been counted as one of the members of your Team!

Loads of love, CGF xo ----- -------- AUTHOR: Marty, a.k.a. canape TITLE: Boobless DATE: 1/23/2008 08:25:00 PM ----- BODY:
Thank God.

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----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Mamma DATE:Wednesday, January 23, 2008 at 9:31:00 PM EST There just couldn't be better news!! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Stimey DATE:Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 12:11:00 AM EST Yay! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous ~JJ! DATE:Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 9:39:00 AM EST I KNOW, Right? ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous katy DATE:Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 1:38:00 PM EST I am so happy for her that this is finally over. It has to be hard to just sit and wait.
I hope you aren't just sitting around today with your feet up. According to my baby pool guess you have less than two hours to get little bird out...Push woman push. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous slouchy DATE:Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 9:20:00 PM EST It's fabulous.

And so is the fact that you are in LABOR! I'm so happy for you and can't wait to meet Little Bird. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Stella DATE:Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 10:39:00 PM EST I hear you're in labor! I lost the pool but so excited to hear about your new little bird!! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Jennie DATE:Friday, January 25, 2008 at 8:04:00 AM EST Wonderful news! Praying for her recovery.

AND....the next post I couldn't comment on for some reason. But it's not true anymore!!! Yay!!! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Lisa DATE:Friday, January 25, 2008 at 8:18:00 PM EST Sending you vibes of strength, pushy strength! heehee. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous katy DATE:Saturday, January 26, 2008 at 1:54:00 PM EST Why mommy said you were in labor two days ago. Whether it was false labor and you are sitting around waiting or whether it was true labor and little bird is here, I wish you the best....Good luck! ----- -------- AUTHOR: Marty, a.k.a. canape TITLE: Tomorrow DATE: 1/21/2008 10:59:00 AM ----- BODY:
Tomorrow is the day.

I want nothing more than to get in my car and go sit with WonderDaddy tomorrow. Or stay at the house and play with the boys. Have a cup of coffee with the parents. Anything.

Just to be there.

All I can do though, is sit here and hold her hand virtually.

We've waited for this day for a long time now. Please go over and leave Susan a comment.

Better yet, I think it would be awesome if there were posts all over the blogosphere that wished her luck. All of them titled "Tomorrow."

Please? Just a quick post, link to her post, and title it "Tomorrow." Thanks.

Harmony In Motion
Two Is Now Three
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It's Not About That Anyway
Around the Island
A Mother's Musings
Anderson Family
Pretty Babies
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The Further Adventures of SpaceMom
GoodyBlog
Lawyer Mama
Useless Ramblings
Tumble Dry
House of H
Fertile Mertile
What Works for Us
Mountain Momma
Dirty Laundry
Mamma Loves
Stimeyland
Slouching Mom
Motherhood Uncensored
My Life As It Is
Crib Chronicles
Karaoke Diva
Live from the Wang of America
Mom 22 Teens
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The Estrogen Files
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The Dairy Wife
The Dana Files
Playgroups Are No Place for Children
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Daily Verses
Little Buggas
Sarah and the Goon Squad
Zone Family
Life with Our Little Ladies
Andria and Co.
"That" Psycho Family
Sassafrass
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Miss Zoot
Nervous Girl
Mom, Ma'am, Me
I Can't Complain Anymore Than Usual
Mommy Dance
Slacker-moms-r-us
The Blogs of Life
Midwestern Mommy
Mommy to the Snugglebunnies
Hearts Wide Open
Baby Cubed
Sunrays and Saturdays
Chicken and Cheese
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----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Mamma DATE:Monday, January 21, 2008 at 11:43:00 AM EST How did you know what I was going to post about today?

I've been thinking about how to harness the positive power of this amazing blogging community. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Robin DATE:Monday, January 21, 2008 at 2:08:00 PM EST Done.

http://aroundtheisland.blogspot.com/2008/01/tomorrow.html ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Sara DATE:Monday, January 21, 2008 at 3:04:00 PM EST great idea mines up ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Steph DATE:Monday, January 21, 2008 at 3:39:00 PM EST http://livngabesmomma.blogspot.com/2008/01/tomorrow.html

I left her some love too! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous ~JJ! DATE:Monday, January 21, 2008 at 4:04:00 PM EST Done!

http://airmydirtylaundry.wordpress.com/2008/01/21/tomorrow/ ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Lisa DATE:Monday, January 21, 2008 at 4:11:00 PM EST I don't have a blog but left Susan a Tomorrow note. Thanks so much for doing this!
Lisa ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Stella DATE:Monday, January 21, 2008 at 4:18:00 PM EST All done!!

www.mommountain.blogspot.com ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous MamaGeek @ Works For Us DATE:Monday, January 21, 2008 at 4:21:00 PM EST EXCELLENT idea.

I'm definitely in. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Stimey DATE:Monday, January 21, 2008 at 5:33:00 PM EST Great idea. I'm so happy the day is finally here!

Tomorrow ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Candygirlflies DATE:Monday, January 21, 2008 at 5:40:00 PM EST Mine's up, too!!

Love to you, Canape...

xoxo CGF

http://icanflyjustnotup.blogspot.com/ ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous useless_rambler DATE:Monday, January 21, 2008 at 6:23:00 PM EST I sent my link to you in email. Oh, wouldn't it be great if you were able to be there?!? I feel so helpless... I believe in the power, though. I just *know* all this positive energy won't go unnoticed.

Take care of you and Bird, too!!! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous The Estrogen Files DATE:Monday, January 21, 2008 at 7:02:00 PM EST Mine's up. I also sent you an email:

http://smcarney.blogspot.com/2008/01/tomorrow.html ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous katy DATE:Monday, January 21, 2008 at 7:25:00 PM EST Mine is up... I will be thinking about whymommy all day tomorrow....take care of little bird and yourself.
http://myersfamily-mom.blogspot.com/ ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous FENICLE DATE:Monday, January 21, 2008 at 7:43:00 PM EST I left her a comment earlier today. My prayers & thoughts are with her and the family. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Robin DATE:Monday, January 21, 2008 at 8:20:00 PM EST Done.
http://wwwmylifeasitis.blogspot.com/

It's times like this that the blogging world gives me the warm fuzzies. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Bon DATE:Monday, January 21, 2008 at 8:20:00 PM EST done. in a roundabout way, but done.

http://cribchronicles.com/2008/01/21/tomorrow-here-and-there/ ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous motherhood uncensored DATE:Monday, January 21, 2008 at 8:22:00 PM EST Mine is up here:

http://motherhooduncensored.typepad.com/motherhood_uncensored/2008/01/tomorrow-brave.html ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous The Farm House Kids DATE:Tuesday, January 22, 2008 at 1:51:00 AM EST Done! What a glorious day "tomorrow" is going to be for Susan ... the beginning of the rest of her life.

Tanya ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Lisa DATE:Tuesday, January 22, 2008 at 9:41:00 AM EST Here you go...

http://lifewithourlittleladies.blogspot.com/2008/01/please-read.html ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Becki DATE:Tuesday, January 22, 2008 at 10:38:00 AM EST Mine is brief, but has been up since yesterday.

http://adventuresofanervousgirl.typepad.com/nervous_girl/ ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Chick DATE:Tuesday, January 22, 2008 at 12:45:00 PM EST a day late but am happy happy happy to... just left her a hug and a good mojo comment

you are a badass chick friend. happy to have found you in blogland. thank you for your lovely comment on my icebreaker post

and I LOVE your belly slideshow!!! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Lisa DATE:Tuesday, January 22, 2008 at 3:07:00 PM EST My post is up! Its late but its there. :-)

http://midwesternmommy.com/ ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Kendra DATE:Tuesday, January 22, 2008 at 4:01:00 PM EST Somehow the email about posting tomorrow just came to my inbox. I posted one for today instead.

http://shawnandkendra.blogspot.com/2008/01/today.html ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Slackermommy DATE:Tuesday, January 22, 2008 at 5:29:00 PM EST I'm a bit late.

http://www.slacker-moms-r-us.com/2008/01/tomorrow.html ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Bubblewench DATE:Wednesday, January 23, 2008 at 10:30:00 AM EST Totall late but done

Done: http://bubblewench.blogspot.com/2008/01/tomorrow-is-today.html ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Lawyer Mama DATE:Wednesday, January 23, 2008 at 10:13:00 PM EST Ahhh, look at all those wonderful posts! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous whymommy DATE:Saturday, January 26, 2008 at 3:28:00 PM EST You all made me cry. Thank you. And thank you, Canape! AND LITTLE BIRD, for being so patient and helping your Mommy! Whoo-hoo! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Izzy DATE:Sunday, January 27, 2008 at 2:46:00 PM EST I was out of commission with dueling sick kids so I missed this but I did read on WM's blog that the surgery went well, thankfully, and she is doing good, all things considered. You are such an awesome friend, Miss Canape. I suspect you've accumulated boatloads and boatloads of good karma by now.

I hope you're off having that sweet little baby now that you can exhale! ----- -------- AUTHOR: Marty, a.k.a. canape TITLE: Countdown DATE: 1/17/2008 08:29:00 PM ----- BODY:
Single digits. The counter on the left is in single digits. That doesn't mean a whole lot I suppose. It is only an estimated due date, after all. The fact that the word "February" came out of the doctor's mouth today did not slip past me. I heard it.

Someone else is in single digits. Whymommy, my dear Susan, is five days away from her surgery.

This has been floating around in my head all month, as I've been watching our respective countdowns. I thought there would be something poetic to say about it. Some sort of literary bit to compose.

But there isn't.

We just find ourselves both waiting.

And it does feel like we are both getting our second chances at the same time.

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----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous katy DATE:Thursday, January 17, 2008 at 11:27:00 PM EST I left a comment for whymommy today and told her that she and little bird were going to start a new life around the same time.
My car is fine... SH's not so much but it is interesting to see the perfect imprint of an electric pole.
Little bird knows he is better in his little 98.6 degree sauna than out in this snowy cold world right now. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous slouchy DATE:Friday, January 18, 2008 at 12:01:00 AM EST so soon, my friend, so soon... ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Candygirlflies DATE:Friday, January 18, 2008 at 9:53:00 AM EST Honey, that sounded pretty darn poetic to me.

I'm so excited for BOTH of you...

xoxo CGF

ps. You get some SLEEP, now!! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous toddlerplanet DATE:Friday, January 18, 2008 at 10:12:00 AM EST We are, we are, we are!

But I wish....

Oh, nevermind. We'll both be here with our babies soon, and it will all be well again. It will.

(I'm always surprised when you leave me a comment because I'm CONVINCED that you're off having the baby already.... Soon, hon, soon. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous labugga DATE:Friday, January 18, 2008 at 2:43:00 PM EST So close!! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Imstell DATE:Friday, January 18, 2008 at 3:20:00 PM EST I'm a teeny, tiny bit jealous. I never even got within the same calendar page as either of my due dates. Believe it or not, it's sort of disappointing to graduate early - even if it is because you've got a really cool gift coming that just can't wait. *sigh*. Enjoy your last few days of doing whatever you want whenever YOU WANT TO DO IT. That's all over after Bird arrives... Bwa, ha, ha! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Jessica R. DATE:Tuesday, January 29, 2008 at 5:33:00 PM EST Is no news good news?
Where's that baby?
Hoping all is well! ----- -------- AUTHOR: Marty, a.k.a. canape TITLE: In case it hadn't struck you yet DATE: 1/03/2008 09:21:00 PM ----- BODY:
Today is Thursday.

And Whymommy didn't have to have chemo today.

This is the bestest Thursday in quite awhile.

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----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous slouchy DATE:Thursday, January 3, 2008 at 9:32:00 PM EST Yes. Yes, it is! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Candygirlflies DATE:Thursday, January 3, 2008 at 9:35:00 PM EST YIPPEE!!!

xo CGF ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Mamma DATE:Thursday, January 3, 2008 at 9:54:00 PM EST Oooh! That is good news. I've been so out of the loop what with my blogging break.

Thank goodness you haven't had that baby yet. I bet you're ready. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Clifford DATE:Thursday, January 3, 2008 at 10:01:00 PM EST I wonder what Sus feels like right now. I mean, with the tiny white flag being waved inside her chest and all. Haha. Shoulda thought of that before you picked on my buddy, IBC. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous ladybugsnlizards DATE:Thursday, January 3, 2008 at 10:06:00 PM EST That is awesome news! What a good day. :o) ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Stimey DATE:Friday, January 4, 2008 at 12:31:00 AM EST Hell. Yes. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Stella DATE:Friday, January 4, 2008 at 8:54:00 AM EST That's WONDERFUL!! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous labugga DATE:Friday, January 4, 2008 at 11:07:00 AM EST A great day, indeed! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Bubblewench DATE:Friday, January 4, 2008 at 1:31:00 PM EST That is great to hear. Awesome. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Beautifully Unique DATE:Friday, January 4, 2008 at 7:16:00 PM EST Great! :) ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous toddlerplanet DATE:Sunday, January 6, 2008 at 10:16:00 PM EST Thanks, babe! It was great not to go. ----- -------- AUTHOR: Marty, a.k.a. canape TITLE: Team WhyMommy: Another post to steal DATE: 10/07/2007 01:33:00 PM ----- BODY:
This is the email I have sent to my local TV news stations. Each of them has a health reporter of some kind or another. My theory is that the stations need a new spin on Breast Cancer Awareness month. So why not focus on IBC?

I would encourage you to steal this post, paste in the appropriate call letters where indicated, and send it to the TV stations in your area. We don't need them to do a story on Whymommy specifically, but we do need them to talk about IBC. We need them to help us get the word out there.

So steal it. Edit it. Send it.

Go Team WhyMommy.

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October is Breast Cancer Awareness month, and I've noticed that enter TV call letters here has always been pretty involved in stories and psa's about breast cancer during that time. Maybe everything is already planned out and such, but I wanted to make sure that you were aware of a little known type of breast cancer where early detection and correct diagnosis is crucial to survival.

Inflammatory Breast Cancer is an often fatal type of breast cancer of which most people are not familiar. I only know about it because of a friend who was diagnosed recently. She is a 34 year old mother of 3 year old and 8 month old little boys and a scientist with no family history of breast cancer.

A quick look at IBC from the National Cancer Institute:
By the time women are diagnosed with IBC, it has almost always spread to the skin, making treatment difficult and categorizing it as a late stage metastatic cancer. Chemotherapy is first, followed by a mastectomy, which is followed by radiation. It wasn't long ago that IBC was a death sentence. Advances have been made, and now, "what was once universally fatal is now a disease that results in half of women diagnosed being alive in five years and one-third of women diagnosed surviving 10 or more years." (CNN) Improvements are great, but 50% survival rate? Surely we can do better than that.

Still though, if you ask 100 people, even 100 women, about IBC, it is likely that only 10 of them will have even heard of the disease. There aren't big drives for awareness or research due to the low percentages of breast cancer cases that are IBC, and also the fatality rate. It is hard to convince companies to invest in research on a disease that has such a high fatality rate. Not really a profit building move for them to make.

But it's out there. And women are dying from it because they don't seek help soon enough. Even doctors misdiagnose IBC as breast infections, delaying that necessary treatments weeks or even months. Early detection and immediate treatment is always a matter of life or death with IBC.

A group of bloggers and friends have been trying our best to spread the word about IBC. Let women know that you don't have to have a lump to have breast cancer. There is a team of over 100 bloggers dedicated to getting the word out about IBC and supporting my friend through her journey. She has written a psa about IBC which has been reposted over 350 times across the internet, resulting in most recently having the story picked up by Parents magazine for their October issue. The best place to start tracking where all we have reached is on Toddler Planet, her blog. I've linked you straight to the media page.

She goes by the name WhyMommy on the internet, trying to save some anonymity for her family. Team WhyMommy is the group of over 100 bloggers who offer her daily support by commenting on her blog, sending emails, gifts, and with local friends organizing playdates, house cleaning, and meals.

I know this is long, and if you are still with me, thanks. The point is though, that people need to know about Inflammatory Breast Cancer. Women need to know that what appears as a breast infection isn't always a breast infection. They need to know that you don't have to have a lump to have breast cancer.

I'll leave you with a few more links to get more information. If you can, please please make sure that in all of insert your station's call letters here coverage this month on breast cancer, that at least once, make sure that someone mentions IBC. You literally could save lives.

WhyMommy's PSA

IBC Symptoms

DC Metro Moms

Other news coverage


Thank you for your time and coverage on this incredibly important topic. Hopefully your station will be helping to get the word out about IBC. October is the perfect month to do it!

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----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Ally DATE:Sunday, October 7, 2007 at 6:58:00 PM EDT This is great. I will copy it to my local stations. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Candygirlflies DATE:Sunday, October 7, 2007 at 7:23:00 PM EDT Oh, my dear... This is perfect. Not only will I be sending it to tv stations, but radio stations, newspapers and magazines, too.

Thank you, thank you, thank you.

xo CGF ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Clifford DATE:Sunday, October 7, 2007 at 9:00:00 PM EDT Sweet. Be sure and let us know what kind of response you get. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Bitsy Parker DATE:Sunday, October 7, 2007 at 10:26:00 PM EDT I've always had kleptomaniac tendencies. Consider this stolen and emailed to my local health reporter (who I will have to identify).

Thanks for writing this! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous slackermommy DATE:Monday, October 8, 2007 at 12:32:00 PM EDT You rock, girl! Let me see what I can do. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous alice c DATE:Monday, October 8, 2007 at 12:36:00 PM EDT Hi Canape,
Thank you for your thoughful response to my comment on Whymommy's post about Breast Cancer research. I am glad that I went back to read the comments because I have a clearer understanding of the issue now.
Here in the UK the problem is to ensure that money is donated to medical charities rather than animal welfare or environmental issues. Then you have to compete within the medical charity sector.

High profile media campaigns will always raise awareness and this will result in increased funds - that is why I believe that the energy that Whymommy gives to her campaign is the best possible way of increasing awareness, funding and ultimately research. It is also made even more effective by the generous support of her friends - like yourself.
Alice ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Jennifer, Playgroups Are No Place For Children DATE:Monday, October 8, 2007 at 2:23:00 PM EDT Great job!! I'm going to send this in to my local newstations right now.. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous FENICLE DATE:Monday, October 8, 2007 at 2:28:00 PM EDT Amen. I'll be sending this along to our local news stations.
Thank you. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Lisa DATE:Monday, October 8, 2007 at 9:50:00 PM EDT YEAY! THis is awesome!

THANK YOU SO MUCH. ----- -------- AUTHOR: Marty, a.k.a. canape TITLE: She's not sick, she's a survivor DATE: 9/23/2007 01:50:00 PM ----- BODY:
Edited below.

This is one of those posts that has little tidbits of thoughts that have been stuck in my throat for awhile now. Things that I would write in book and close the cover on, but haven't been willing to put out here. It seems like time though. Time to unclog the drain a little.

Whymommy is educating again. She has written a post about seeing a group of colleagues for the first time since her diagnosis, and the different responses she received from people. What struck me the most was the interpretation that someone inquired of the chemo, "Is is working?" Just like that. Blunt and intrusive.

That is how she has taught us to see it. This person was another scientist, full of curiosity driven by a penchant for research. Not necessarily a concern for the person standing right there in front of them.

In her narrative, you learn people's responses that were comfortable for her, and the ones that left her hurt and angry. Feeling more like a project than a person. We learn more about how to treat those we encounter who are fighting cancer in the present.

Sometimes though, I want to ask those questions. I want to know if it's working. I want to know what the doctors are saying.

I want to know how my friend is doing in her battle.

More than that though, I want to know how my friend is doing in her life.

There is an elephant in my room. The elephant is the fact that IBC is a killer cancer. The elephant is that more women don't survive than do. And I walk around this elephant, kicking it as I pass by, wishing that the facts weren't staring me in the face so that I could never have even a fleeting doubt.

Deep down, though, the facts don't have an impact on my belief that Whymommy will beat this. I truly believe that when all is said and done, we will have nothing but anniversaries to celebrate and years to add to the length of time she has been a survivor.

And I hope adding to the length of time that she is an advocate for IBC survivors.

Because there is something about all of this that bothers me. It isn't easy to talk about because I'm so busy trying to sound positive all the time.

The latest issue of Parents brought it to a head though, and I'm going to go ahead and say it.

People don't want to hear about Inflammatory Breast Cancer because it isn't pretty.

I don't want to diminish how happy I am that Goody Blog featured Whymommy and IBC recently. I am so happy and grateful that they did that, and then got part of that information in print as well. Many many thanks to them. Their interview with her is wonderful.

What bothers me is that in the print issue of Parents, there is no mention of IBC whatsoever, just breast cancer in the generic sense of the words. If someone is intrigued enough to take their magazine, go to their computer, and to then look up Toddler Planet, then they will learn. They will learn that this isn't an ordinary breast cancer fight. They will learn that there was no lump. No family history. No rhyme or reason to why it has struck this woman.

Guy, my ever present truth bleeder, said that I really shouldn't be surprised. That Parents didn't want to print the complete truth that is IBC right next to the cute picture of the smiling baby wearing the "Save the TaTa's " onesie. It's frightening and their readers don't want to be full of "that could be me" syndrome.

But why couldn't they at least spread the word that there doesn't have to be a lump?

Something else that bothers me is that when I asked Guy why there wasn't more research being done on IBC, he told me I didn't want to hear that answer. I pressed him further. He told me,

"The fatality rate is too high for companies to invest their research funding in."

Well isn't that just perfect? They won't invest because the chance of their success isn't high enough. Women continue to die because no one will do the research. How then, do we change all of that?

That's why I think it is up to us. That's why I think we have to acknowledge that every single solitary day that Whymommy and Imstell continue to survive, they are also offering the hope that maybe we can change the climate. Get someone to believe that IBC is worth investing time, money, and research in.

Get someone to understand that it can be beaten, and that IBC survivors are worth investing time, money, and research in.

We have to do this. We have to change the climate. Make the winds blow funding and determination into finding a sure cure or even better yet, a prevention for IBC.

While I'm up here on my soapbox, I've got one more thing to address.

Whymommy doesn't want for people to stare at her like she is sick. The fact of the matter is though, she looks like someone who is undergoing chemo. And after my visit, I was racked with guilt at the fact that I saw her as a someone who was undergoing chemo. As if I was going to have some magic power to see her with all of her energy and hair right there in front of me.

I cried for a long time after leaving her house. I felt like I had let her down.

What I understand today, finally, is that we see what we see. It is in how we choose to interpret what we see that is important.

So I say this. The next time you see someone who is obviously undergoing chemo, see them for what they are. They aren't a sick person. They are a fighter. They are a survivor.

This is what a survivor looks like:














This is a picture of strength, courage, fight, determination, and survival. One that I totally stole off of her blog, but hey. She should be glad I'm not posting the one I found in my boxes of her getting ready for 10th grade homecoming.

Whymommy, so while I get scared, and I know you do too, I don't see you as sick. I see you as a survivor. I see you as the friend you have always been. With easier hair maintenance.

I don't want the fact that I want to know how you are doing, emotionally, physically, even medically speaking, to diminish the normalcy of our friendship. I'm also going have a slew of parenting questions in January as well. Hell. I just ask a lot of questions. I suppose it could get annoying.

There are those of us who ask, "How are you?" and really want an answer. Whatever answer you feel like giving at the time, but we are asking because we care.

I'm one of those asking because I care.

Upon further reading of my copy of Parents, I do have to add that they listed some IBC symptoms on page 101. While they still never mentioned IBC or that you don't have to have a lump to have breast cancer, they did tell women to go to their doctor if they noticed changes in their breasts. Just saying. You know, to be fair to them and all.

Also, I'm back to being positive, especially for Whymommy. I didn't write this to promote fear or focus on the negative. I just want for IBC to stop being ignored. Bring it out into the light.

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----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous slouchy DATE:Sunday, September 23, 2007 at 3:52:00 PM EDT You are a good person and a good friend. And all of the questions you ask here are worthy and tough. Some of them have flitted through my brain, but I've tamped them down.

You're courageous to ask.

And WM is a survivor. Her attitude ROCKS. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Candygirlflies DATE:Sunday, September 23, 2007 at 5:02:00 PM EDT Amen.

AMEN!!

Beautifully, beautifully written.

And now, I am going to sit down and write to an editor at "Canadian Living" magazine, because they DID have an article about a woman with IBC this month... but they, too, omitted to tell women that YOU DON'T HAVE TO FIND A LUMP TO HAVE BREAST CANCER.

We must all fight for knowledge, as well as adequate resources for research to find a cure.

Thank-you, and thanks also to Whymommy, for being a really big and important part of that fight.

xoxo CGF ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Mamma DATE:Sunday, September 23, 2007 at 8:25:00 PM EDT Oh C!!

I'm glad you got this out. I know this has been hard. You know my inbox is always open when you need it. It was an honor the first time you trusted me.

Your writing about WM (and her keeping a blog) paints her as a whole person to me--not just someone with cancer. I feel like I know her and yet we've never met.

IBC is scary and awful. Anything the two of you cook up to get the word out more, you know I'm right behind you.

Lots of love tenderheart!! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous FENICLE DATE:Sunday, September 23, 2007 at 9:53:00 PM EDT By the way....I bought my WHYMOMMY t-shirt and it's a lovely pink.

It ROCKS!!!! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous FENICLE DATE:Sunday, September 23, 2007 at 9:53:00 PM EDT You hit the nail on the head. My cousin (who I've written about on my blog and I think you've read) had IBC and lost her battle.
(http://fenicle.com/category/stephanie/)

She went searching for treatments & research & trials...and had a hard time dealing with the reality you mentioned here.

She found great strength in a non-profit group - IBC Research
http://www.ibcresearch.org/
who were the only ones she could find that were striving to find a cure!

I personally donate to them and would encourage anyone else that has the means to do so as well. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Bubblewench DATE:Monday, September 24, 2007 at 9:22:00 AM EDT Awesome post. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous T with Honey DATE:Monday, September 24, 2007 at 10:03:00 AM EDT You have to be the best BFF ever!!

And if I can figure out a way for corporations to care about people instead of keeping their shareholders happy by making the highest profits possible I'll share the secret with you.

Hmm... maybe that's the solution. We pool our money to make Team Whymommy a major shareholder in a medical research company and make IBC the #1 priority. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Bon DATE:Monday, September 24, 2007 at 2:21:00 PM EDT dude, you just blew my mind. i only read the Parents' Magazine excerpt as linked by Whymommy, and i assumed the rest was there.

i grieve our ostrich nature. i just don't get it. and i think i'll go see if i can email Parents' Magazine and add to the chorus.

maybe if enough of us do, they'll do a reprint, with Whymommy's actual message...cause Jeebus, what a slap to her to cover her without covering what she's busting her tired ass to say, to get out there.

tears in my eyes, this makes me so angry. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Ally DATE:Monday, September 24, 2007 at 4:41:00 PM EDT I agree with JJ that Parents mag could use a copy of this post. Well said, on all accounts, Canape. It's okay to rant and to be scared and angry and frustrated and confused. It's real. You are such a good friend to WM; I am sure that when you say "how are you doing" it feels worlds away from the ex-co-worker at the conference who asked "is it working." ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Jennifer, Playgroups Are No Place For Children DATE:Monday, September 24, 2007 at 5:07:00 PM EDT Great post.

Whymommy has a great friend in you. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Clifford DATE:Monday, September 24, 2007 at 8:41:00 PM EDT I'm just hoping YM has come up with a nifty catch phrase for the final day of cancer, right as the last dying IBC cell succumbs.

Something like "hasta la breasta" or "take off eh?" would be cool, although she'll need some mirror-lensed Oakleys for the first one. Knowing my buddy, she'll probably reference something with a celestial body or a NASA mission, though. But it will still be cool. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous whymommy DATE:Monday, September 24, 2007 at 9:01:00 PM EDT You know, the Deep Impact mission blew a hole in a comet, Clifford ... if we can do that, surely chemo can blow a hole in this cancer I have!

Canape, I'm as mad as you are. About it all. It's okay to say it. It's okay to ask.

How do I feel? Well, today I'm having hot flashes. All day. But my energy is coming back, and the treatments are working to some extent.

We'll just have to see whether they're working enough. But that's something none of us can know.

The question is, what can we DO about it? ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous The Farm House Kids DATE:Monday, September 24, 2007 at 10:55:00 PM EDT C.,

That was so well said and so obvious you truly love your friend, a whole woman, who is surviving this and will triumph as a survivor!

Yes, we need to get the word out! We need to form committees and we can research editors of women's magazines and tell WM's story. We can contact Oprah, Dr. Phi, The View, The AP, The Today Show, GMA and anyone that will listen. If we ask everyone that's on WM's Team to send a letter to their own local newspaper and we link back to a newly created blog that supports this cause, we will be seen. Our voices will ring loudly across this nation.

To do this, will take action on everyone's part and it will get this story out.

Women have power! Our voices can be heard~ We can stand united around this nation in support of not only WM, but to all women with IBC.

Little stories become big stories when small groups unite and become big groups. Susan B. Komen was one woman. A woman with breast cancer. Even though she lost her battle, her story started somewhere.

WM is going to be a survivor of IBC and she will tell her story! Like slouching mom says, "Her attitude ROCKS."

Let's do more and make a plan to spread the word across this nation from coast to coast!

We need a plan and our sponsors will come. They will join us on behalf of the woman that are crying out with loud voices that demand to be heard ~

This is the age of internet and I think we can sweep this nation in a short period of time, and be heard. We need to not only sweep the blogs, but get this story into circulation both in print and on TV.

Count me in! I am volunteering to do whatever needs to be done~

Tanya ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Lisa DATE:Tuesday, September 25, 2007 at 12:04:00 AM EDT Yeay for YOU. This is one of my favorite posts of yours.

And WM is an amazing woman. She IS going to kick some butt.

But yes, its so very heartbreaking to see a dear friend go through chemo. I watched a friend of mine go through it as well... But yes, you know that WM is still the same woman she was before the diagnosis. She's just spending less money on conditioner these days. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous dawn224 DATE:Tuesday, September 25, 2007 at 11:11:00 AM EDT Amen.

JJ is right - this needs to be sent.

Full support for you coming from here. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Clifford DATE:Tuesday, September 25, 2007 at 2:27:00 PM EDT "But yes, you know that WM is still the same woman she was before the diagnosis. She's just spending less money on conditioner these days."

bwwaahaha. My kinda comment. I shall now chuckle. :D ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Kathy's Surprise Party DATE:Tuesday, September 25, 2007 at 7:30:00 PM EDT Wonderful post. I always want to know too so thanks for asking. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Oh, The Joys DATE:Tuesday, September 25, 2007 at 10:13:00 PM EDT I am struck most (which is hard to say given such an intense and important post) by how hard it must be for you to want to talk with her about the fear of losing her and to not feel able to.

That is hard going, Canape.

Sending you love. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Jessica @ A Bushel and a Peck DATE:Thursday, September 27, 2007 at 9:26:00 PM EDT I subscribe to Parents Mag, and read the article and was surprised too. I think sending this post is a great start--I'll be emailing them as well. Its too important to let it go. And I am 100% with Tanya's comment--it is possible for a group to make their voice heard--and I am happy to help in any way I can to get this message out. Any thing I can do, I will. My blog doesn't have that much traffic yet, but there are so many venues we could turn to--if we all raise our voices, people will hear. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Lou.Jamie DATE:Friday, September 28, 2007 at 9:18:00 AM EDT Wait, where did you get your pink WhyMommy t-shirt, fenicle? I want one! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Marty, a.k.a. canape DATE:Friday, September 28, 2007 at 9:30:00 AM EDT Lou.Jamie -

You can get a Team WhyMommy t-shirt on cafepress.com. Just go search for the shop name "canapesun."

We aren't raising funds with them as they are being sold at cost, but we are raising awareness! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Magpie DATE:Friday, September 28, 2007 at 10:15:00 AM EDT Lovely post. Strong, necessary message. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Amanda DATE:Friday, September 28, 2007 at 12:17:00 PM EDT Statistics and spirits don't mesh, contradicting one another. We must each believe in exceptions when our hearts and souls tell us to, regardless of statistics. It is what makes us human, what nourishes our spirits. So you keep going with these posts believing in the Whymommys of the world. And we'll talk about the absence of lumps and the vitalness of hope. Always. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous ohgrammy DATE:Sunday, September 30, 2007 at 9:16:00 AM EDT A perfect post, saying so much that others wish they had the words to say. . . .
I totally agree that PARENTS missed the point and let us down by not identifying IBC in the October coverage of breast cancer. The list of symptoms on page 101 is not enough. We need to insist that more is said.
Canape, please know that your visit to WhyMommy gave her spirits a tremendous lift! It was a gift that only you could give her, as her old and dear friend, and you did. No tears, no regrets. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Anonymous DATE:Saturday, December 12, 2009 at 1:24:00 PM EST Hello !.
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Check this out:

October issue of Parents Magazine

Nice, huh? Thank you, Goody Blog!


The Team Whymommy Roundup has been updated. Remember, I'm looking for that Team Whymommy button to stay in your sidebar so that every time someone visits your blog, they see it. It can link to the Team Whymommy post or to Toddler Planet. Either way is fine by me.

And if you've asked for code and haven't gotten it from me, it's because you've got that "no-reply" going on in your Blogger comments and didn't leave me your email address. Try again please, and I'll be happy to send it!

Don't forget you can order your Team Whymommy t-shirts here. Just the cost of the shirt, no fundraising going on. Simply so you can be stylish and start a conversation about IBC all at the same time.

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----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous slouchy DATE:Saturday, September 15, 2007 at 3:01:00 PM EDT Wow. Parents magazine. That's...huge. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous dawn224 DATE:Saturday, September 15, 2007 at 4:04:00 PM EDT I have it up:

http://kaiseralex.com

(I have a post too, I just don't want to blow out your template with it.) ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Bananas DATE:Saturday, September 15, 2007 at 4:31:00 PM EDT Oh I LOVE that this is getting press. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Ally DATE:Saturday, September 15, 2007 at 4:34:00 PM EDT Hooray, hooray! I'm so happy for the press for WM and for IBC. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Candygirlflies DATE:Saturday, September 15, 2007 at 6:30:00 PM EDT Canape, you and Whymommy are THE BOMB!! This is such fantastic news!!

Congratulations... I'm sure that you guys are literally saving lives.

I'm so very, very proud of you both!!

xo CGF ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Steph DATE:Saturday, September 15, 2007 at 8:34:00 PM EDT I havent gotten my parents magazine yet, but will definately be cutting this out! Way to go :) ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous FENICLE DATE:Saturday, September 15, 2007 at 10:31:00 PM EDT Yes, I forgot to ask for the button code. Can you e-mail it to me:

info@fenicle.com

Thanks! And I'm off to order a t-shirt..... ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous The Farm House Kids DATE:Saturday, September 15, 2007 at 11:30:00 PM EDT Wow! That is fabulous!

Also, I've had my button up for over a month ... and I didn't make the list! *sniffle*

Add me when you update please!

Tanya ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Kelley DATE:Sunday, September 16, 2007 at 12:42:00 AM EDT Hi, I would love to be part of the why mommy team! I have the button on my blog (have for a while) and have written about her a couple of times. Now I have my teenage girls in on the activism and talking to their friends and mums.
Yes, one person can change the world and you and Whymommy are doing it! I am in Australia. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Maddy DATE:Sunday, September 16, 2007 at 5:16:00 PM EDT I put in a link but it definitely doesn't look like a button [technically challenged person]
Cheers ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Bubblewench DATE:Monday, September 17, 2007 at 12:51:00 PM EDT I'm so glad this is getting the press! That's awesome. ----- -------- AUTHOR: Marty, a.k.a. canape TITLE: TWM Update DATE: 8/22/2007 03:05:00 PM ----- BODY:
Just a little update about Team Whymommy.

It has sort of taken on it's own life. With Whymommy's post on IBC popping up on blogs, in emails, and on message boards over 250 times that we have been able to count, the word is definitely getting out. Thank you for that.

I moved the list into it's own page because my blog was taking 879 years to load. You can still get to it by clicking right underneath the Team Whymommy button. If you aren't on the list and think you should be, there could be a few different explanations.

First, it could be I screwed up and just haven't added you yet. Please feel free to send me another email with your link and a gentle reminder that I suck and need to add you.

Second, it could be that you just left me a comment and have no Blogger identification. If I can't track you through your comment (if you aren't clickable or have "no-reply" set as your email preference), then I can't add you. Because I don't know where you are. Please feel free to send me an email with your link and I will add you.

Third, it could be that I went to your blog and didn't see a button. It doesn't have to be the original button even. Some people have tweaked it, added a pretty ribbon, changed the font, and that's a-ok with me. But it needs to be on your sidebar, always linking back to Toddler Planet or the Team Whymommy post. If it's just in a post, then it disappears and people won't see it after awhile. We want for it to stay on the front page all the time so that your visitors see and go, "Oh, what's this? Team Whymommy? I simply must click on this lovely button and find out more!" So please feel free to send me an email with your link if you move the button to your sidebar and want to be added.

After you link and post, you might wonder what else you can do. I do. I wonder all the time. So I keep forwarding the post. I keep talking about it. I wear my Team Whymommy shirt so that people will ask me about it.

And, I took the information to my OBGYN's office. Had a lovely little talk with the doctor about how important I thought it was for them to remember that IBC is out there. Then I gave her a sticky note pad with the address for Toddler Planet and asked her to have all the staff take a look at Whymommy's blog, which is a powerful and personal tool for IBC patients and their caregivers. She seemed genuinely surprised that I knew a 34 year old mother with IBC. And her surprise let me know that I had done the right thing.

The team was started to support Whymommy. Whymommy wants to get the word out. So that is what we are called to do. Help her get the word out.

If you have a story about an encounter you have had telling someone about IBC, please leave it in the comments or a link to it in the comments. I would love to know about it.

And by the way,






Because Izzy said to, and I think it's a nice thing to do. So go ahead, tell us who you've told about IBC and give yourself a little linky love at the same time.

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----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Mamma DATE:Wednesday, August 22, 2007 at 4:01:00 PM EDT Look at you educating your OB!!

Girl you rock in so many ways!!! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous slouchy DATE:Wednesday, August 22, 2007 at 4:10:00 PM EDT I love the thought of the staff at OB-GYN practices around the world reading her blog. What a great idea! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Ally DATE:Wednesday, August 22, 2007 at 8:19:00 PM EDT Aha! I love the idea of taking this info to my doc. Great ideas. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Maddie DATE:Wednesday, August 22, 2007 at 10:46:00 PM EDT I posted the same article that Lawyermama had - just in case you're still wanting to keep track.

I posted the Team Why Mommy logo in the post, but if you happen to have the HTML for the button so I could place it on my sidebar? I'd be grateful.

I hope the word keeps on spreading. I also forwarded the link to my girlfriend (an OB who delivered my son)... ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Megan/ Velveteen Mind DATE:Wednesday, August 22, 2007 at 11:19:00 PM EDT My post is finally up, along with the button, after waiting for the "perfect" opportunity for too long. This was an important one for me.

I have an OB appt next week and never thought to bring this up. I absolutely will now. Thank you again. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Jenn DATE:Thursday, August 23, 2007 at 7:40:00 AM EDT I hope it makes your page load faster; crashed me last night.

And you're like the best friend, ever.

Also, I wear my WhyMommy shirt all of the time, too, and get lots of questions about it.

Those were a great idea. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Perugini DATE:Thursday, August 23, 2007 at 9:23:00 AM EDT God bless you, chica,

xoxo ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous FENICLE DATE:Thursday, August 23, 2007 at 11:16:00 AM EDT Excellent job!! You probably just saved several women's lives by passing the info on to you OB/GYN!! I'll do the same at my annual appt in Oct. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Kathy's Surprise Party DATE:Thursday, August 23, 2007 at 10:34:00 PM EDT I got a random email from someone yesterday. Someone who doesn't read my blog. Someone who said - read this it's about this thing called IBC. I was floored. Go Team WhyMommy! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Whymommy DATE:Thursday, August 23, 2007 at 11:38:00 PM EDT That. Is. Awesome.

Thank you -- and keep 'em coming! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Bitsy Parker DATE:Friday, August 24, 2007 at 10:10:00 AM EDT Value wIT has a TWM link and post, but I don't think I'm on your list (valuewit.com).

Hey, did you add flowers to your Don't Take The Repeats banner? Looks great. ----- -------- AUTHOR: Marty, a.k.a. canape TITLE: One in eight is one too many DATE: 7/26/2007 11:11:00 AM ----- BODY:
Reposted from Toddler Planet. If this is something you have never seen before, please post it on your blog. If you don't have a blog, please email it to every woman in your address book. And if you haven't joined iBakeSale yet, please do that too. We need to keep fighting this battle right along with WhyMommy.

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We hear a lot about breast cancer these days. One in eight women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in their lifetimes, and there are millions living with it in the U.S. today alone. But did you know that there is more than one type of breast cancer?

I didn’t. I thought that breast cancer was all the same. I figured that if I did my monthly breast self-exams, and found no lump, I’d be fine.

Oops. It turns out that you don’t have to have a lump to have breast cancer. Six weeks ago, I went to my OB/GYN because my breast felt funny. It was red, hot, inflamed, and the skin looked…funny. But there was no lump, so I wasn’t worried. I should have been. After a round of antibiotics didn’t clear up the inflammation, my doctor sent me to a breast specialist and did a skin punch biopsy. That test showed that I have inflammatory breast cancer, a very aggressive cancer that can be deadly.

Inflammatory breast cancer is often misdiagnosed as mastitis because many doctors have never seen it before and consider it rare. “Rare” or not, there are over 100,000 women in the U.S. with this cancer right now; only half will survive five years. Please call your OB/GYN if you experience several of the following symptoms in your breast, or any unusual changes: redness, rapid increase in size of one breast, persistent itching of breast or nipple, thickening of breast tissue, stabbing pain, soreness, swelling under the arm, dimpling or ridging (for example, when you take your bra off, the bra marks stay – for a while), flattening or retracting of the nipple, or a texture that looks or feels like an orange (called peau d’orange). Ask if your GYN is familiar with inflammatory breast cancer, and tell her that you’re concerned and want to come in to rule it out.

There is more than one kind of breast cancer. Inflammatory breast cancer is the most aggressive form of breast cancer out there, and early detection is critical. It’s not usually detected by mammogram. It does not usually present with a lump. It may be overlooked with all of the changes that our breasts undergo during the years when we’re pregnant and/or nursing our little ones. It’s important not to miss this one.

Inflammatory breast cancer is detected by women and their doctors who notice a change in one of their breasts. If you notice a change, call your doctor today. Tell her about it. Tell her that you have a friend with this disease, and it’s trying to kill her. Now you know what I wish I had known before six weeks ago.

You don’t have to have a lump to have breast cancer.

teamwhymommy

P.S. Feel free to steal this post too. I’d be happy for anyone in the blogosphere to take it and put it on their site, no questions asked. Dress it up, dress it down, let it run around the place barefoot. I don’t care. But I want the word to get out. I don’t want another young mom — or old man — or anyone in between — to have to stare at this thing on their chest and wonder, is it mastitis? Is it a rash? Am I overreacting? This cancer moves FAST, and early detection and treatment is critical for survival.

Thank you.



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----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous FENICLE DATE:Sunday, July 29, 2007 at 11:04:00 AM EDT Thank you for posting this & all the work you've done for WhyMommy. It's so important to spread the word about IBC. My own cousin, Stephanie, was diagnosed almost 3 years ago and passed away about 9 months later. It is an ugly cancer. The dr's all kept telling her it was an infection - she had no lump, it couldn't be cancer. We now know that isn't the case.

http://fenicle.com/category/stephanie/ ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous WhyMommy DATE:Sunday, July 29, 2007 at 10:26:00 PM EDT Thank you! And now... how was BlogHer?????

Do tell! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous JHS. DATE:Saturday, August 4, 2007 at 12:17:00 AM EDT Got my t-shirt today and am going to start wearing tomorrow. I'm having lunch with friends and we just said good-bye to another friend a month ago who died of ovarian cancer (and it spread to other organs). Please add Colloquium to the wall of support (http://www.jhsiess.com).

Blessings! ----- -------- AUTHOR: Marty, a.k.a. canape TITLE: Team Whymommy Gear DATE: 7/20/2007 03:27:00 PM ----- BODY:
There are finally some shirts ready to go via cafepress.

These are not to raise money for anything; they are being sold at the base price. They are only to upgrade your already stylin' wardrobe, and promote awareness of IBC and our darling WhyMommy.

I apologize for not having them done in ample time for Blogher. I am a total loser for that. However, if you really do want one for Blogher, you could order it today and have it shipped to your hotel. Which is what I am doing.

If you aren't going to Blogher, we will miss you greatly, but I hope you will buy a shirt anyway so that people will stop you and ask questions. We want for more and more people to be aware of IBC. Raising awareness is one of the most important jobs we have. That, and keeping WhyMommy in good spirits.

Major thanks to Izzy for fixing the logo for the shirts. She rocks my socks.

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----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous slouchy DATE:Friday, July 20, 2007 at 4:55:00 PM EDT Thanks for doing this! And thanks to Izzy, too! ----- -------- AUTHOR: Marty, a.k.a. canape TITLE: Give a little. Get a lot. DATE: 7/20/2007 12:10:00 PM ----- BODY:
I am tired of asking people to part with their money. After six years as Executive Director of an incredibly worthy non-profit, beating down doors for donations, writing grants, and scraping up publicity, I don't want to tell you where, why, or how much to give. I am just reluctant.

However, I am not reluctant to shop. Especially online. I know I am not alone. Dear T has her debit card number memorized she uses it so much online. So asking my friends to sign up for iBakeSale doesn't seem like much.

For all of those Team Whymommy members who have emailed saying that they just wish they could do something, here it is. Go here, and sign up. When you shop online, go here first. There is somewhere that you shop, I promise.

Whymommy doesn't want us raising money on her behalf. I totally understand that, and respect it as well. There are so many good causes out there, that how can you really tell people where to send their hard earned cash? What is close to my heart may not be close to yours, and that is okay.

One thing I think most of us can agree upon though, is that there needs to be more awareness and more research for Inflammatory Breast Cancer. That is why I have signed up for iBakeSale
and will have 100% of my cash back rewards donated to Inflammatory Breast Cancer Research Foundation. They are "committed to finding the causes" of IBC, and I think that is so important. Wouldn't it be so much better if we could prevent IBC, thereby circumventing the need for a cure? Don't get me wrong, the cure is of utmost importance now, but I'm thinking long term here. Prevention. What if another never has to hear the words, "You have inflammatory breast cancer"?

Here is some of the nitty gritty. You sign up here. You choose which charities you would like to receive your donations. If the charity you like is not listed, you can add it. You choose what percentage of your cash back rewards goes to charity (and yes, I will be all judgey if you don't choose 100%, so don't tell me if you don't), list your shopping preferences, and you are done. It is that simple.

You don't have to choose the IBC Research Foundation. You don't have to choose only the IBC Research Foundation. It is up to you. The point it, here is an easy way you can do something. If you are going to shop online, then sign up and give back.

Bonus? If you select a 501(c)3 organization, which IBCRF is, then you can deduct your donation from your taxes as well. Win win.

You don't have to be a blogger to sign up for this. All you have to do is shop online. And I can't think of any of you that I know personally that don't shop online. So please sign up. Give to the IBC Research Foundation or to the charity or charities of your choice. It's so easy.

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This is part of a blog blast for Parent Bloggers Network today. They do some swell things in the blogging community. Besides, I wouldn't ask you to do something that I haven't done myself though, so you know I really think it's a good idea.

If you have trouble getting links to the stores, try clicking the "Nordstrom" button at the top of the page. As a side note, iBakeSale has an incredibly fast and nice support team who will email you back in about 2.5 seconds if you have any questions about their website.

I'm going to shop now.

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----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous JT DATE:Friday, August 24, 2007 at 3:58:00 PM EDT Great post. Thanks so much for your kind words about our program. I think your comment on convincing people to donate their money. It can be really challenging. But asking somebody to shop is different, since it's something they'd be doing anyway. That's what iBakeSale is all about, making donating to charity easy and free. Your cause of Inflammatory Breast Cancer Research Foundation is amazing and I totally support it as one of our most important causes. Thanks again for joining iBakeSale and stay in touch!

Jonathan
CEO iBakeSale.com ----- -------- AUTHOR: Marty, a.k.a. canape TITLE: Life preservers DATE: 7/12/2007 08:53:00 AM ----- BODY:
It's almost 9:00 AM. That means Whymommy has been actively fighting cancer for almost 30 minutes now. Her first chemo treatment started at 8:30 this morning. That. Is the most important thing happening today. If you haven't yet, please stop by and leave her a cheer.

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Today is Cleatus the Featus' due date. Last night, as I was giving Guy a much deserved back rub, he asked me what I needed for today. The answered surprised both him and me.

"Nothing."

Are you sure? He wanted to know. Flowers? Do you need to go out to dinner?

"No. It's going to be fine."

And it is fine.

There is this little ache in the center of my chest in the spot where Cleatus always tugs. I know especially today that it will be there, and so today, when he tugs as my heart, I will just say "hello," and "I miss you too."

Guy told me that he knew I was sad, and that he was glad that it wasn't the drowning sad. I am glad too. I have a lot of life preservers though. Andria and Girl have both wrapped their internet arms around me. And Bach. Sweet wonderful Bach arrived with flowers in hand this week and reminded me that she is sorry she didn't get to meet him too. And I couldn't thank her properly in person because I didn't want to cry right then.

Little life preservers.

Andria is right. This is not just any other day.

But I will be okay. Me and Little Bird will sing a song to Cleatus, and then, we will get back to the healing and the hope.

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----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous AcadeMama DATE:Thursday, July 12, 2007 at 10:32:00 AM EDT Sending {{hugs}} to you as you remember Cleatus and are hopeful for Bird's future :) ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous girl DATE:Thursday, July 12, 2007 at 12:50:00 PM EDT I know you already know but we are thinking about you, with smiles :) ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Bon DATE:Thursday, July 12, 2007 at 1:36:00 PM EDT just adding a little note to the chorus of Cleatus' song...saying hey.

and i can't help but notice the congruence of dates...much as i don't claim to make any coherent meaning out of them. hoping that some of the life and love and what this date should have been for you carries over to offer the same to Whymommy...life, love, a new beginning.

i don't know if that makes any sense. but i'm thinking of you and your friend today, both of you. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Tiffany DATE:Thursday, July 12, 2007 at 5:21:00 PM EDT Thinking of you today and so encouraged that you're feeling hope. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Mamma DATE:Thursday, July 12, 2007 at 5:32:00 PM EDT I'm so impressed by how far you've come. So glad.

WhyMommy has us all, just like you did and do. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous WhyMommy DATE:Thursday, July 12, 2007 at 7:37:00 PM EDT Love you, Canape. You, and Guy, and Lovely, and Cleatus and his new brother or sister.

This day ... now has baggage. But it will get better in years to come. And when we are old women, we will clink glasses of wine to toast the bittersweetness that is July 12 for both of us. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Jessica DATE:Thursday, July 12, 2007 at 8:55:00 PM EDT I'm glad that you only needed a little life preserver today... It's amazing what a little time will do. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Bach DATE:Thursday, July 12, 2007 at 9:37:00 PM EDT I've been thinking about you and Cleatus today. Your little fella will always be remembered and missed, so don't forget that.

Sending love.
BACH ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Ally DATE:Thursday, July 12, 2007 at 11:02:00 PM EDT Oh my, what a hard day. I'm sending you my hugs as well. I hope you can feel them. Try to ignore my soft squishy middle. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous slouchy DATE:Friday, July 13, 2007 at 7:23:00 AM EDT Hugs and all manner of support from me. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Liz DATE:Monday, July 23, 2007 at 10:27:00 PM EDT Love, darling. Nothing but love for you.
Belated, maybe. But heartfelt nonetheless. ----- -------- AUTHOR: Marty, a.k.a. canape TITLE: G is for ginormous DATE: 7/08/2007 09:06:00 PM ----- BODY:
This weekend I went to visit the bra nazi. You know the place. A real bra store with bras that can double as bullet proof vests, and everyone is fitted, every time.

I have worn the same bra daily for about a week now. I am aware of the grossness. I don't have another one that fits now. Hence my trip to the bra nazi.

This woman, in her mid 70's, has owned the Pennyrich Bra Patch for years. She can fit anyone any size, including women with less than 2 breasts. She is the go to lady for all your boob needs. The only thing you have to watch out for are the days when she is anxious to show your her custom fit bra. Without warning, she will hike her shirt above her head to show you how well her bra supports her coniferous breasts. I have seen this more times than I can forget. And I have tried to forget.

This trip to the Bra Patch was different though. There was a younger woman working. She understood my desire to wear something that kept me from being a hunchback, but yet that was still pretty. She sympathized as she measured my pregnant breasts, saying "And you'll only get bigger from here." Comforting.

Honestly, it was the most painless trip I've made to the Bra Patch, but I have to say that the saleslady lost major points with me when she said, "Back when I was pregnant, I was happy just to finally fill out a B cup." If I had swung around fast enough, I could have taken her out with my left boob. Right across her temple.

I'm glad I didn't though. She fully redeemed herself when she returned to the dressing room with the most beautiful bra I have owned. She said, "This is a new line we are carrying. They make bras especially for small women with a large cup size."

Small women. I am rarely, if ever, called small. Since the ninth grade I have worn baggy tops to hide my breasts. I was embarrassed at their size and uncomfortable with the attention they drew. My baggy clothes left everything else hidden and made me look heavier that I was.

I decided I love this woman. And the bra she brought me. Of course the second bra is far more utilitarian, but I'm alright with that.

My friend T told me a few years ago that I should be happy I have these girls. Show them off she said. So I bought some camisoles and then proceeded to wear big baggy shirts over them. The girls and I have never made peace really.

I always wanted to be a person first and a woman second. My chest has been a stumbling block in that area. I have hated the way it overwhelmed my figure. I have hated never being able to buy a dress; only separates that were 2 sizes bigger on top than the bottom. I have hated never being able to go braless, not even around the house. I have hated trying to go braless and then bounding down the stairs only to have the girls try to rip themselves off and alternately slap me in the chin.

I thought (and I know what you all told me . . .) that maybe, just maybe, the girls were plenty big and wouldn't need to grow when I got pregnant. Not so much.

But there is a treaty on the horizon. I am learning to make peace with my body. I am in a relationship that has been amazing for my self esteem. I am learning to respect the changes my body is making in preparation for this Little Bird. I am looking forward to breastfeeding. Put these puppies to good use.

I will be thankful for what they will give to our child. Be thankful for their health and, um, vigor. Be thankful that G isn't the last letter of the alphabet in bra land. Ginormous indeed.

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Calling Team Whymommy. Care to pontificate on your boobs? Do so anytime this week, leave a link here, and we'll round them up on Friday for some weekend reading while Whymommy recoups from chemo treatment #1.

Remember, the only Team Whymommy rules are positive thoughts and no pity. Bring on the funny.

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----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Bubblewench DATE:Monday, July 9, 2007 at 6:50:00 AM EDT I have always been the girl with boobs, in 3rd grade my teacher called my mother in and told her I needed a bra, and to skip the training ones. I know all aboyt the seperates, and the bra nazi. I'm super happy you had a great experience at the store! I am glad you are finally coming to terms with the bazoongas. They really are pretty awesome. And you have great things to do with them ahead! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Robin DATE:Monday, July 9, 2007 at 7:44:00 AM EDT Please tell me it isn't really called the Pennyrich Bra Patch. You're kidding, right?

If it's any small consolation, those of us at the salesgirl's end of the sizing scale have just as much angst and embarrassment when it comes time to buy a bra. Ever try to find a sexy bra in a training bra size? I didn't make peace with my own (teeny tiny) boobs until I breastfed my children and came to understand that breasts have a purpose in life, and that this purpose has nothing whatsoever to do with how they look under a camisole.

Hmmm... I think I feel some pontificating coming on ;-). ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous MamaGeek @ Works For Us DATE:Monday, July 9, 2007 at 11:22:00 AM EDT Love the post! Why is it I feel the same way about going to the "bra nazi's" as I do going to the dentist! UGGGH. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Mamma DATE:Monday, July 9, 2007 at 12:11:00 PM EDT Man I ALWAYS wanted boobs!

Be prepared: This is not going to make you feel better.

I was a B when I got pregnant. I was an F when I gave birth.

I'm back down to a DD, but most of that is left over baby weight (hahahahahaha--three years left over).

I'm afraid if I lose weight I'll have two pancakes that I have to tuck into my waistband. Hey, maybe that's why mom's wear their pants higher. A place to put your boob flaps!

Okay...enough babbling. The Bra Patch? Really? What a great name.

PS--my TWM button is up. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Jennifer, Playgroups Are No Place For Children DATE:Monday, July 9, 2007 at 2:06:00 PM EDT I love talking about boobies :)!

I've always wanted to go to a real bra shop. Actually, I should go since I always seem to buy the wrong size.

Here's a link to a boob post from June....

http://playgroupsarenoplaceforchildren.blogspot.com/2007/06/my-cups-runneth-over.html ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Bon DATE:Monday, July 9, 2007 at 2:31:00 PM EDT i too always hid under baggy tops that made me look bigger than i was.

looking back, i think part of that was the karmic punishment of being a teen in the 80s...styles just weren't kind to those of us who had boobs: the clothes puffed out, and then never came back in.

glad you found a beautiful bra. and interesting - though i hadn't read this before i posted my own broader coming-to-terms with my body post late last night - that we ended up on parallel themes. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous FENICLE DATE:Monday, July 9, 2007 at 2:40:00 PM EDT I am certain that I have never heard it called that before....but I am positive that from now on those stores will only be known as the BRA NAZI'S!!!!!!!! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous WhyMommy DATE:Monday, July 9, 2007 at 2:56:00 PM EDT The Pennyrich Bra Patch. I love the South. (And clearly it loves me, cause now it's following me around and MAKING ME WEAR HATS! Sorry. Flashback. Hats on Sundays and all.)

Glad you found one that fits -- and one that's pretty to boot! ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Fancy Pants DATE:Monday, July 9, 2007 at 8:05:00 PM EDT I like cake! and by cake I mean the girls. :) ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Liz DATE:Monday, July 9, 2007 at 9:31:00 PM EDT I love this post, Canape.

I don't think I couldn't have said it any better myself: the no peace, the big shirts, the not so much with the attention to the chest.

I love the Bra Patch-esque place I used to go to in Vermont. But in NYC, believe it or not? I haven't found one I'm comfortable with. In the city? Everyone is just so BOTHERED when you want to shop in their store. You can forget about that thing called Customer Service.

Stay tuned for my booby post. Great subject. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous MB DATE:Monday, July 9, 2007 at 9:55:00 PM EDT You must tell us - what's the brand of the pretty bra you like? I don't live near the scary old lady but I might try to find one online. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Oh, The Joys DATE:Tuesday, July 10, 2007 at 1:00:00 AM EDT Boobs? I never shut up about my boobs. Send WhyMommy over here. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous katy DATE:Tuesday, July 10, 2007 at 1:51:00 PM EDT I quit talking about my boobs so much since they decided to start going south. Im hoping in a few years I can quit buying bra's and just tuck them into my elastic pants. I do go braless once in a while but last time I did I got one caught in the pressure washer trigger............I'm pathetic. ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Andria DATE:Tuesday, July 10, 2007 at 3:35:00 PM EDT lol... saw this, and thought of this post!!! http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20070710/ap_on_re_us/dictionary_s_new_words ----- COMMENT: AUTHOR:Anonymous Bitsy Parker DATE:Saturday, July 14, 2007 at 12:33:00 AM EDT Hope you don't mind unsolicited advice, but don't spend much money on bras at this stage. Once you have the baby, ginormous turns into supersize-ginormous. The best time to buy THE bra is the end of the first week after the baby is born. Like you have time to go bra shopping then. However, gua-ran-tee it, the bra you just bought is going to be too small!

P.S. More unsolicited advice - buy a stretchy bra that doesn't hook to sleep in. In case you haven't heard, there is no sleeping braless unless you want to wake up in a pool of milk.

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